Ask, Share & Receive

The most happiest during the lockdown period at home is none other than our  dachshund- “COFFEE” -and that’s her name 😃!! Prelockdown  she would hates it when master Sr & Jr would leave for work & school. But her joy would know no bounds when they would get back home .   All my life [ until 2019 Aug] i disliked dogs and would not touch one even with a bargepole. How ever this one has stolen my heart . I remember the restrictions that I had imposed concerning her as we got her home . But I am the one who have broken quite a few rules  ☺️ .   Such as .....whilst at the dining table, coffee will come(only to me) and look at me with her puppy eyes!! "Please, please whatever you seem to be having smells utterly butterly yummiliciouss 😋 ... can I but have just one tinnewinny   bite" ..... how I wish I could evade those mesmerising eyes . But her patience, her looks , her gaze, her demeanour, her resilience, her waiting drives me into ...

Last week during the Passion week celebrations, I was kind of confined in bed fighting a bacterial infection that in a way changed my facial appearance. The infection was in the eyes paired with swelling in the face. I failed to recognise myself in the mirror,so why would I blame the IOS App that failed to pick up my Face ID 😂? Everyone of us immaterial of our age and gender love to look good. I am not talking about a bad hair day or days that we look tired, but of the obsession that we all have to look good and I definitely am no exception to that desire ! So more than the discomfort and pain, I felt quite conscious of my countenance specially when I attended all the zoom calls 😉 .   But trust me, certain life lessons teaches us that most situations in our life are beyond our control . The healing in my eyes and face took about 10 days but the prayers and comfort that I received was overwhelming .   I decided to shift the focus from it being " all about me ...

Every married woman desires to be a mother . For those of them who have had tough pregnancies and even found it difficult to conceive, the process would have been so tough and overwhelming.   I have been through my share of hardships and after 7 years into the marriage I finally got the   positive report of being in the family way. . However 4 weeks into the pregnancy I encountered a major problem something not normal to go through when with child. I remember that Sunday evening so well , the doctors were not available but I was rushed to the hospital to see what could be done . They could not run any tests but asked us to come back the following day for a scan . But from the conversations that I overheard from the medical team they said there was a high probability of me having lost the foetus . Those words thoroughly broke and crushed me from within .   That night was really daunting . One of the longest nights of my life . As I lay awake and was w...

When we were out on an errand our gardner who just got back from his leave was waiting outside our home along with a friend of his . He wanted us to reinstate him back to his job. While having a conversation with him , I went to chuck something into the bin placed in our garage just to   find a heap of cigarette stumps and ashes in it. Looked like someone had just thrown it in there. I was a little perturbed as I wanted to know who visited home when we were away ( none of us smoke at home)   I checked with the gardener and his friend and they forthrightly said - oh that can never be us , we saw some delivery guy and maybe he would have dumped it ! I was a little anxious to find out who visited our premises in our absence.   Our landlord fortunately had Cctv cameras installed so I went an hours back in time to see who could have come and it happened to be our gardner’s friend . They seemed to have lied as they were scared just in case I would be mad wit...